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Escorting – A Spiritual Basis For Courtesans

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Divine Femininity & Masculinity — The divine Feminine (r) & Masculine(l) principles Het-Heru & Heru respectively

Some time ago I commented on an article about how the ancient world looked at sexuality. I will expand on it as it relates to escorting.

I love to study ancient and indigenous civilizations. They had or have knowledge and wisdom that our contemporary world could benefit greatly from. They recognized that humans have both divine and animal aspects and that both were necessary.

Het-Heru Pleasure:

For example, in the ancient world invoking joy, pleasure, etc. in another was a great honor. There was no problem with meeting a complete stranger and experiencing intimacy with that person. There was no moral condemnation involved. In fact, it was considered a practical matter that consenting men and women would become intimate if they met, instantly felt a mutual affinity, and wanted to explore it further. After all, isn’t intimacy with another a form of communication?

There have been and still are shrines dedicated to the principle of joy. Although some people today refer to it as a goddess it’s actually a principle in the universe that was personified so that people could more easily comprehend and remember it. In ancient KMT/Kemet (1000 – 8000 years BCE) this principle was known by a number of names but the name Het-Heru stands out for me. Het-Heru literally meant the house of Heru. Heru was the masculine complement of this principle.

Het-Heru was not only studied and practiced as a discipline in itself but also as part of a larger system of principles that the universe is based upon. It operates on a spectrum of behavior. At one end of the spectrum, there is the height of sexuality, even escorting. On the opposite end of the spectrum, it is the imagination to bring anything visualized into reality. The highest thought of ourselves in the mind of that force in the universe that some call Neter, Olodumare, Nkulunkulu, God, Allah, etc.

Het-Heru was the archetype of young women. It was personified as a beautiful woman that knows everything about invoking, heightening, and maintaining sensuality, pleasure, laughter, joy, and happiness in herself and others, especially men. This principle manifests itself in: female sexuality, being social, sensual, artistic, and creative endeavors (dancing, singing, visualizing, etc.), ecstatic trance, imagination, and the energy thereof.
There are many more manifestations of it. In the field of sociology, it’s called attraction or likability, the life of the party, etc. In physics, it’s called gravity. In spiritual science, it’s called imagination, visualization, and sexual magic. I just call it Het-Heru.

Aphrodisiacs Used In Escorting:

All of the aphrodisiacs used in escorting (music, dance, aromas, foods) and sexual sciences (Tantra, Kama Sutra, SummumBonum

Amen Ra) romance, rituals, etc. were designed to invoke and increase the life force in us through sensual practices fall under this principle. The contemporary terms of sexual fantasies, adult sex dating, romance, exotic, etc., and escorting (male and female) would fall under this principle also. All people with great social, artistic, and creative skills have in some way tapped into this energy.

The Het-Heru energy may be more dominant in some people. Others develop it through training. The more successful escorts (female and male) tap into this part of themselves naturally. Most tend to be joyful, pleasant, gregarious, sensual, sexually veracious, and adventurous. At least when it comes to attracting and seducing clients, sex, etc. All of us have it and can develop it further.

By the way, the Greeks referred to KMT as Egypt. They also incorporated the Het-Heru principle into its pantheon of gods naming it Aphrodite. The Romans did the same naming their Venus. Even today the Yoruba of Nigeria (who some say migrated from Kemet after Kemet fell) have Oshun. Some contemporary Egyptologists refer to Het-Heru as Hathor and Heru as Horus.

The Why:

Most cultures took great care of their life force because it enabled them to invoke god-like attributes (omnipotence, omnipresence, omniscience, etc.) for practical matters. The study, cultivation, and use of it were considered a great honor. Don’t we all want to be the life of the party or at least be in his/her presence?

Today most people in the western world are unhappy with their lives. Many feel the pain of loneliness and boredom. Many are sexually unfulfilled, stuck in abusive or loveless relationships, jobs that they hate, and many other bad situations too numerous to mention. Escorting by someone that knows how to invoke this joyful healing energy is needed more today than it ever has been.

I’m honored to follow this ancient principle of bringing pleasure, joy, and happiness to others through escorting women and couples.

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Straight Male Companion: A Woman’s Right To Hire Him Part 3

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Should or Shouldn’t I?:

Some women languish for long periods of time over whether they should engage a straight male companion for hire. It’s understandable. When making this decision keep in mind we all have the right to come up with a solution(s) that we believe will work best for us. The solutions are value judgments based on your particular set of circumstances, the options before you and where you are at a particular point in your life. All decisions come with consequences. Even those where one decides to not change anything has the consequence of things remaining the same.

Value judgments can never be wrong; just maybe different from another’s. Sometimes our choices result in desirable outcomes; other times not so much. Other people faced with the same circumstances may make the same choices; some will not. Some will agree with our choices; others, well, will not.

How To Find A Quality Straight Male Companion:

All straight male companions are not created equally. Some are of top-notch quality. Yet many more shouldn’t be anywhere near this business. Exercise due diligence whether you patronize a male escort who works as an independent or one represented by an escort agency. Your comfort and safety are paramount.

I suggest that you check out Concierge Du Monde before searching for a companion. It’s a forum where you can learn how to safely navigate the dance of patronizing straight male companions. There you can also connect with male companions and with some amazing women who patronize them. The forum, however, experiences cycles of high and low activity at times. But it’s an invaluable resource that covers a wide variety of topics.
Then determine what type of experience(s) that you want before searching for a companion to fulfill your needs.
Finding a straight male companion can be as easy as connecting with one on Concierge Du Monde, doing a search using your favorite search engine, or asking a friend for a recommendation.

To find one on the internet merely enter your search criteria as your keyword search term(s). Be prepared to look beyond the first two search engine results pages. There are a lot of irrelevant, crappy sites and distasteful ads. Stay with it and you will eventually find a companion who piques your interest.

If you feel comfortable doing so, ask a nonjudgmental confidant in your social circle of female friends for a recommendation. Especially from a friend who has engaged a male companion. In certain socioeconomic circles, it’s more common than you may have realized.
Finally, contact your potential companion with the mindset of getting to know him. Schedule some time with him afterward if you feel that he’s a good fit for you.

The Wrap-up:

I have done my best to explain why a woman has a right to hire a male companion by illuminating what quality male companions do. Many do not recognize how fulfilling the time with a quality male companion can become due to their own misconceptions. You can share some wonderful rendezvous together.

It may not be for every woman. But if you are open to the possibility of indulging, you may find that this is exactly what you need. Most women who have engaged a quality male companion feel that they’ve received a real bargain.

In a perfect world, there would be no need for straight male escorts. Every woman desirous of memorable experiences with a man would have them. However, we do not live in such a world. Thus, we must navigate adult issues in the imperfect one in which we reside.

Properly understood, providing companionship to women is honorable and compassionate. It’s an honor to be a straight male companion. I give joy, pleasure, excitement, etc. to women or otherwise greatly enhance their lives. I would be honored to do this for you.

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Straight Male Companion: A Woman’s Right To Hire Him Part 2

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The Real Cost Of Male Companionship:

Every relationship comes with a toll. That toll may be an investment of time, emotional energy, financial, or a combination of thereof. Sometimes the financial toll for a male companion is less than the time or emotional ones.

Many women spend what may amount to a small fortune on clothes, cosmetics, lingerie, perfume, manicures, pedicures, gym memberships, plastic surgery, and this list goes on. Making her feel better about herself is at the heart of many purchases. It’s always best to work on one’s self from the inside out instead of the outside in. But if a woman is going to invest in retail therapy anyway then why not a quality male companion also?

Finally what if you or any woman for that matter retained a male companion who recognized how amazing you are beyond anything you could ever put on your body? A guy who does not disappoint or break your heart? A man there for you when you desire his companionship then gone when you don’t? Someone whose only reason for being in your life is to bring joy, pleasure, excitement, or otherwise make you feel amazing about yourself? What would that be worth to you?

Of course, elite male companionship comes with a toll also. – You wouldn’t want some cheap thrill, would you?

He led me through an evening of sensual tactile pleasures. – Client

The Sensuality A Woman Craves:

Providing companionship to women isn’t only about getting physical. However, if something does happen between them a male companion better be able to deliver. Rightfully so, there is an expectation that a “Professional” has deeper knowledge, skills, experiences, tools, stamina, etc. than the average Joe Blow.

The connection between a woman and man can be a deeply moving adventure that thoroughly satiates. It can even become a sacred spiritual experience if the connection is strong enough and last long enough for her to submerge into ecstasy. An explosion of pleasure so powerful that the Goddess buried deep inside is released. Also known as ecstatic trance, bliss, flow, nirvana, etc.
The sacred sensual sciences can be magical.

Not every woman desires to explore the spiritual depths of sacred sensuality. But she should experience what it feels like to be touched by a man in ways she never dreamed. To enjoy an exuberance that moves her to cry out with tears of joy or eternally stop time. Feel a deep sense of connection, cared for, and special with a man whose confidence in his abilities is so sky-high he can take his time to give her an amazing experience. One who is genuinely able to put her gratification above his own.

By the way, it’s easier for a woman to submerge into ecstasy due to the energy of femininity. Many indigenous and ancient cultures have/had sexual and non-sexual rituals to attain this flow. Reaching this heightened state allowed the receiver to become clairvoyant, cure illnesses; communicate with higher beings, etc. That’s why these cultures had a higher reverence and respect for women. Something needed more than ever in this age of rampant misogyny and abuse (physical, verbal and emotional) aimed at women.

I wouldn’t have been able to go on in the marriage without hiring a Male Companion For Women – Client

Couples:

A client may engage a male companion with or without her significant other’s knowledge or consent. In this society, the defacto criteria of a “good relationship” are longevity and monogamy. However, the explosion of open, poly-amorous, cuckold and etc. relationships indicates that there are many types of relationships. Some may be as caring and fulfilling as any other.

The couple may be madly in love constantly tearing one another’s clothes off but also like variety or want to add a little more spice. There’s actually a new term to describe when a partner is happy for and supportive of the other partner having an amazing experience with someone else. It’s called compersion.

Even in the situation where the significant other doesn’t know about the gigolo, the relationship may become enhanced when each person in that relationship receives what each feels is needed. We all want the maximum amount of joy in life. Who are we to place a value judgment on how another receives what we want for ourselves? If our significant other can’t or won’t help us achieve it then this is an alternative.

As far as longevity is concerned every relationship, marriage and monogamous ones included lasts only as long as the partners want to be together. Open, poly-amorous, cuckold, etc. relationships are no different in this respect.

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Sensual Massage For Women

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You desire a luxury male courtesan to help you relax and release the sexual tension in your entire body with a sensual massage (I call it Sensualsage). It’s ironic that business or professional women work so hard to be successful but are seldom able to relax and enjoy it.

Release this tension in your body with a sensual massage. A candlelit room filled with the aroma of incense and soft music creates an ambiance of relaxation awaits.

Nomenclature: Although not exactly the same I prefer the term Professional Boyfriend but use the terms male escort, courtesan, companion for women, or gigolo synonymously. Likewise with the terms high-end, luxury, and upscale.

Sensual Massage:

Once the ambiance has been created the sensual massage arouses and circulates the healing, rejuvenating sexual energy of your life force through the use of actual massage techniques that may include the erogenous zones. It’s a sharing of energy that travels through my body to my arms then hands and finally fingers. There are many massage techniques, such as caressing, stroking, rubbing and gently thumping or kneading.

A veil of calmness comes over me as I lubricate my hands then warm them by rubbing them together.

A feather slowly slides over the bottom of your feet to the calves, thighs, buttocks, and back up to the neck. My warmed hands caressing the soft tissues of your body then stroking and gently kneading the harder muscles.

When you are ready you turn over to lay on your back. I start from the top, massaging your forehead followed by the temples and your facial muscles. Your face begins to tingle. I move down to your neck rubbing it then shoulders followed by the arms, sides, torso, groin, and thighs down to the feet.

As I touch more sensitive areas you begin to tense up. Your breathing becomes shallow. Your back arches and you moan with pleasure. I sense that the pressure is becoming unbearable yet titillating. Ever concerned with your comfort I whisper softly in your ear “How does that feel? – Do you want me to keep going?”. Your head slowly nods in the affirmative and you faintly reply “lovely – don’t stop”.

As the sexual energy pulsates and circulates in your body it will sometimes feel tingly, ticklish, and pleasurable. Finally, the sexual tension is released followed by a relaxation of the muscles. The circulation of this rejuvenating energy inside the body manifests itself outwardly in your experiencing joy, pleasure, and euphoria – a happy ending.

Your moans of joy tell me what parts I should give more attention to. But you are always free to let me know what areas to concentrate on.

Other Forms of Touch:

If you don’t fancy a sensual massage then there may be something that you have in mind. Alternatively, you may choose any of the following:

Hand massage only
Foot massage only
A private cuddle party (aka snuggle party)
Pampering
Bondassage®

Of course, any Adventure could also include releasing your inner foodie, afterward, to satiate all your desires. And yea, you could easily get another type of massage at the spa and/or pamper yourself in some other way but wouldn’t it be so much more fun with a luxury male courtesan?

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Bondassage For Women – A Sensual Primer For Feminine Sensibilities

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Many women love massage. Many love BDSM, also known as Kink. What if there was a way to combine the two? Bondassage is a trademarked sequence of practices, techniques, and implements that intertwines sensual massage, BDSM, and other modalities such as bodywork and breath work in a uniquely erotic manner. It goes beyond having orgasms. Instead, it takes the receiver on a journey of sensual and erotic discovery that often sends the receiver into ecstasy a.k.a. subspace.

A sensual massage is an actual massage using actual massage strokes. The touch, however, doesn’t stop at the erogenous zones. In fact, Bondassage gives the widely known, not so widely known, and often ignored erogenous zones plenty of attention. Most people don’t realize how intensely pleasurable even the most subtle touch can become.

Note: If you are unfamiliar with BDSM or Kink click here. Additionally, there are tons of information about it on the web, classes in sex toy shops, in private clubs & dungeons, forums, etc. Also, my Bondassage practice caters exclusively to women. Thus, this article is admittedly slanted toward women.

Origins of Bondassage:

Bondassage was created in 2008 by Jaeleen Bennis, a Certified Massage Therapist. She intertwined the following elements of BDSM/Kink with sensual massage and the above-mentioned modalities:

Sensual Domination
Submission (Lite)
Sensation play
Tie & tease
Bondage (Lite)
Others

all alchemized in a languid tantalizing manner that safely leads the receiver on an exploration of the depths of sensual pleasure. The receiver need not think, make decisions or do anything except merely enjoy. Something that is easy to do since the receiver need only feel the sensations of their body and connection to the giver. The sequence of practices, techniques, and implements all come together (an intentional pun) to please the senses.

Who is Bondassage For:

Bondassage is for any consenting adult who desires to be sensually satiated. It was created for men originally and then adapted for women later. Whereas most techniques in Bondassage are common to both male and female sensibilities some are gender-specific.

It has a rich set of practices, techniques, and implements for the female body. I further adapted the ambiance, sequence, practices, techniques, and implements with many of my own sensual secrets to emphasize and nurture the sensibilities of women and the female body.

By the way, it’s easier for a woman to submerge into ecstasy due to the energy of femininity. Arousing sexual energy is actually a very powerful way to tap into one’s own sacred divinity. It is also the most direct way to experience a deep spiritual connection with the divine force that underlies all of creation. In fact, many ancient and indigenous cultures have/had rituals to cultivate this sexual power in order to affect the physical and non-physical world. That’s why many of these cultures had a higher reverence and respect for women. Something needed more than ever in this age of rampant misogyny and abuse (physical, verbal and emotional) aimed at women.

One can experience the softer or harder side of BDSM in Bondassage. It can serve as a lite introduction to BDSM for newcomers or the harder edge of BDSM sessions for someone fully immersed in the kink lifestyle. However, Bondassage tends to gravitate towards the softer side of Kink.

Taste Of Bondassage:

Lite, restrained, feathery lite strokes tease, sliding over the bottom of your feet to the calves, thighs, buttocks, and back up to the neck. Hands follow tenderly caressing the soft tissues of your body; kneading the harder ones.

Perfectly relaxed with Bondassage you melt with eager anticipation of what’s to come next. A variety of tools are employed.
Firm caresses slowly increase the intensity of your pleasure. You begin to tense up as the touch becomes more intimate. The giver takes you right up to the edge of a release. With an ever-engulfing desire to be satiated your breathing becomes shallow. Your back arches, spontaneously moaning with passion.

Sensing that the tension in your body has become both titillating and unbearable, you receive permission to release it. With the sexual energy pulsating throughout your entire body you burst with excitement, quivering. Exhilarated with both the journey and finish line you bask in the afterglow.

Although the goal in Bondassage is the sensual and erotic journey itself, a release(s) of sexual tension inside of you is a nice climactic bonus as you come to the end of your journey of sensual and erotic discovery. Wouldn’t you agree?

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Gigolo For Couples – 10 Tips For Engaging One For Her Enjoyment

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Many couples engage the services of a gigolo, aka a straight male escort catering exclusively to women, to satiate the woman’s deepest desires. And why not? She can explore the depths of her sensuality with a man who certainly will not interfere or pose a threat to the couple’s relationship. Also, if you need the skills of a professional then you hire well… a “Professional” (pun intended).

I’ve been providing companionship to women and couples since 2011 and find that the reasons a couple may indulge in the pleasure of a straight male escort are as varied as the couple that engages them. Here are but a few:

Spice things up
She is intrigued by the idea of being with a gigolo
He has a fantasy of seeing his wife or girlfriend with another man
He suffers from an illness or injury that prevents him from either performing or adequately performing
She has fantasies about being with a man of a different and/or particular ethnicity

10 Tips for Engaging a Gigolo

Whatever the reason(s) for engaging a gigolo, here are a few tips for couples considering hiring a straight male escort

Communicate Your Needs – Be ready to tell your male escort about your… However, avoid being… Otherwise, your male companion may just completely cuff off communications with you.
Choose A Renaissance Man – While most couples engage a male escort for the sensual skills select a gigolo who has multiple skills. Occasionally, you may just want him to accompany you to a social event, take the wife or girlfriend site-seeing, dance, accompany her shopping, attend an event, give her a sensual massage, Bondassage, or even prepare a scrumptious dinner for the lovely couple then become the dessert.
Find One Who Clicks With You -Gigolos come in many varieties. Choose one who gets you, understands your goals, and genuinely wants to help you achieve them. This is a relationship and like all relationships, some people connect while others do not. It has little or no bearing on the quality of the male companion…
Straight Means Just That – If hiring a straight male escort don’t expect him to service another man. Attempting to sneak something in will probably put an abrupt end to the Adventure. It’s a huge offense. If you want your escort to service the man it’s better to hire a gay or bisexual male escort.
Engage A…. – A quality straight male escort has certain traits. The overwhelming majority (99.99999%) of male companions these days will be online in some way. Check his digital signature including his comments on social media. He should have… If he doesn’t have a digital signature perhaps he is new to the business, retired, nearing retirement or a dangerous guy posing as an escort.
Book Enough Time – If you have never hired a straight male escort or this particular one it will take it will take some time for both of you expecially the wife, girlfriend, or significant other to become relaxed and comfortable with the male companion. After all, he is a stranger.
Don’t… – If you want things done a certain way or order it should… A quality straight male escort should know what he is dong. Thus, it’s best to… Trying to… serves to break the flow of intimacy between him and the woman.
She Must Be… – Sometimes the husband or boyfriend is the one pushing for a rendezvous to occur. Unless the wife or girlfriend… it’s better to wait until… Additionally, it is not a good idea to… by having a male escort…
Take… – If your encounter is a threesome, foursome, or moresome… but even if it’s a one-on-one between her and the gigolo then… There may be the option of a Couple’s Adventure where there is a female escort for the husband/boyfriend and a male escort for the wife/girlfriend. Obvious… But if she knows you are…
Encourage… – Some women may become concerned that… The husband/boyfriend in the couple should…. This helps to mitigate or completely eliminate that concern.

Compersion For Her With A Gigolo

There’s actually a term to describe when a partner is happy for and supportive of the other partner having an amazing experience with someone else. It’s called compersion. A couple’s tryst with a gigolo may not be for every relationship but if you desire to explore this possibility it may be just what you need. I would be honored to help you navigate what could be an amazing adventure for both of you.

Note: My companionship to women has evolved to being a Professional Boyfriend to women. However, I want you to find me so I’ll continue to use the terms Gigolo, Male escort, etc for Search Engine Optimization (SEO) purposes.

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